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twelve steps and twelve traditions

Juggernaut

February 3, 2010

We who are alcoholics can consider ourselves
fortunate indeed.
Each of us has had his own near-fatal encounter
with the juggernaut of self-will,
and has suffered enough under its weight
to be willing to look for something better.
So it is by circumstance rather than by any virtue
that we have been driven to AA,
have admitted defeat,
have acquired the rudiments of faith,
and [...]

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Tolerance

January 24, 2010

Finally, we begin to see that all people,
including ourselves,
are to some extent emotionally ill
as well as frequently wrong,
and then we approach true tolerance
and see what real love for our fellows actually means.
It will become more and more evident as we go forward
that it is pointless to become angry, [...]

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Step One

August 29, 2009

“No other kind of bankruptcy is like this one.
Alcohol, now become the rapacious creditor,
bleeds us all of self-sufficiency and all will
to resist its demands.
Once this stark fact is accepted,
our bankruptcy as going human concerns is complete.
But upon entering AA we soon take quite another view
of this absolute humiliation. [...]

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Egomania

June 20, 2009

“Our egomania digs two disastrous pitfalls.
Either we insist on dominating the people we know,
or we depend upon them far too much.
If we lean too heavily on people,
they will sooner or later fail us,
for they are human, too,
and cannot possibly meet our own incessant demands. . .
We have [...]

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Rationalization

June 6, 2009

“There are cases where our ancient enemy, rationalization, has stepped in and has justified conduct which was really wrong. The temptation here is to imagine that we had good motives and reasons when we really didn‘t. We ‘constructively criticized‘ someone who needed it, when our real motive was to win a useless argument. We sometimes [...]

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Control

May 6, 2009

“Most of us have been unwilling to admit
we were real alcoholics.
No person likes to think he is bodily and mentally
different from his fellows.
Therefore, it is not surprising
that our drinking careers have been characterized
by countless vain attempts to prove
we could drink like other people.
The idea that somehow, someday he will control
and [...]

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Willpower

March 21, 2009

“We AA‘s know the futility of trying to break the drinking obsession by will power alone. However, we do know that it takes great willingness to adopt AA‘s Twelve Steps as a way of life that can restore us to sanity.
“Bill W., Letter, 1966 As Bill Sees It, p. 88

Thought to Consider . . [...]

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